Throughout
the years you’ll lose friends, family, and lovers. Loss is inevitable,
it’s a rough reality of life but it doesn’t have to be all bad because
there’s a lot to learn from loss. Life’s journey is a marathon.
Everybody that starts with you won’t have what it takes to finish with
you. One of the toughest things to accept in life is that people grow
apart. Sometimes you’ll have to love somebody enough to let them go.
That may be easier said then done, but just because it isn’t easy
doesn’t mean it isn’t necessary. If you’re trying to go places in life
you can’t keep following the people who are content with just going
anywhere. You need to be around people who have a sense of purpose and
direction. We are all impressionable, so if you want to get ahead make
sure you’re starting the process by putting yourself around the right
influences. It’s simple math: if people aren’t adding value to your life
then they need to be subtracted. If the people around you aren’t
helping you dream bigger, inspiring you to work harder, or motivating
you to do better, then you’re in the wrong circle. When you care about
something, you protect and cherish it; your “care” makes it better.
Don’t avoid having basic expectations. You should expect the people who
claim to care about you to show it, and in more ways than one. If you
show me somebody you feel you can’t expect anything from, I’ll show you
somebody you don’t need in your life. Beware of those who claim to care
more when their actions show you that they could care less. Some people
are around just to be around. Stop letting people just “chill” and take
up space in your life. Make sure their presence has a purpose. Great
people can’t come into your life if you keep allowing average people to
block the door. Sometimes you just need to remove certain people from
your life. If they don’t see your vision, they’ll compromise your
mission. You can’t always control who you lose but you can control who
you hold on to, just make sure they’re worth it.
Just my thoughts good people, just my thoughts
-ROB HILL
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